Alex + Tony
July 31, 2026 · Princeville, Kauai
Please join Alex and Tony on July 31, 2026
as we celebrate our wedding in Princeville, Kauai!
Alex’s Story
Raised in the foggy hills and endless foodie streets of San Francisco—in Excelsior, to be exact—Alex is the perfect mix of city smarts, grounded calm, and charismatic badassery. A proud Chinese American woman, she travels robustly with all the fits—ready for a lazy day, a spontaneous adventure, or a night out on the town. She’ll always pick noodles over rice, no questions asked.
She’s equal parts sharp and silly, introspective and resourceful, magnetic and spontaneous. She can find those mom and pop shops for a top notch treat, read a room like a therapist—because she is one—and make Margot laugh in under three seconds flat.
Alex is thoughtful in ways most people never notice—quietly doing the thing that makes your day easier without needing credit for it. She doesn’t need the spotlight, but somehow always shines. Whether she’s deep in conversation or breaking tension with a perfectly timed butt wiggle, Alex brings warmth, wisdom, and joy into every space she’s in.
Tony will tell you: she’s the reason they’re so organized, the reason life flows the way it does—and the true feeling of home every time he hugs her.
Tony’s Story
Tony is a creator, a mover, and a master of making things happen. A choreographer, photographer, and storyteller, he moves through the world with creativity, emotional depth, and a drive to build meaningful experiences—for his art, his family, and his community.
As a father to Margot, Tony brings patience, emotional intelligence, and a deep understanding of child development into every interaction. He listens closely, leads with compassion, and finds that sweet spot between structure and silliness. Whether he’s navigating toddler big emotions or celebrating small milestones, he’s fully present—and always learning.
He’s the kind of partner who can hold space for big feelings, order every dish off a menu (because why not?!), riff on the weirdest inside jokes, or dive into a deep late-night talk without missing a beat. Thoughtful and introspective, Tony is always asking the bigger questions—about himself, his relationships, and the world around him.
He’s the steady, the spark, and the soft place to land—and Alex still can’t believe she gets to marry him.
Our Relationship
Our love lives somewhere close to a bowl of noodles and a deep 1 a.m. conversation—with laughter nestled comfortably in between.
We’re always on the hunt for the perfect milk tea, the tastiest snacks, and comfort food from any culture. Pretty much every meal is “our thing”—as long as we’re together, laughing between bites while sharing stories and recalling memories.
We thrive in the in-between moments: lazy mornings before our alarms ring, mid-day hugs, big belly laughs in the middle of the night, and those quiet, unspoken pauses when we snuggle each other and take each other in.
We balance the silly and the serious—with dance parties, insightful discussions on current events, chaotic animal impressions, and deep conversations about life, love, and parenting keep us grounded. We dream together, challenge each other to grow, and show up—day after day—with tenderness and curiosity.
Alex has helped Tony connect with emotions in ways he never thought possible and is the kind of partner who makes every moment with Margot magical, too. Tony helps Alex trust her instincts, step into her power, and know she’s loved exactly as she is.
Our relationship isn’t perfect—it’s better. It’s real, it’s evolving, and it’s ours.
Arrival
July 30, 2026
Welcome Dinner
6:00pm
TBD
Wedding Day
July 31, 2026
Ceremony
5:00pm
1 HOTEL HANALEI BAY
Kamani Cove
5220 Ka Haku Road
Princeville, HI 96722
Cocktail Hour + Reception
6:00pm
1 HOTEL HANALEI BAY
Hanalei Room and Terrace
5220 Ka Haku Road
Princeville, HI 96722
Post-Nuptials
August 1, 2026
Aloha Brunch
10:00am
TBD